Well you got a good start here on the ndk fourms. I live thornton, but my reason for not going to meet-ups is because of work. And for me back in high school, i was a founding father and president of my high school anime club, and there really wasn't many members. But when i heard of ndk, i made friends and learned that some of those people live in that same area. Sure different town, or different school, but i knew they were close by. Just don't give up. You'll find someone in your area that loves anime.