Be in love with someone that only exists in a dream. Which brings up a pet peeve of mine regarding that wording, "In love."
It's IMPOSSIBLE to be IN love with someone that does not love you back. You can love someone that doesn't love you back, but to be IN LOVE requires that the other party love you back. To say that I am in love requires that I must also be able to say that WE are in love when speaking to a third party. Without returned love the correct terminology is that you love the other person, not that you are in love.
Ok, rant over, back to our regularly scheduled game
Would you rather
Wake up to feed a child at 3am when you know you won't be able to get back to sleep
Or
Feed a bear by hand knowing that you'll probably get mauled?